Friday 28 March 2014

School issues.. Round... Um I forgot where we are now........

So we had parents evening yesterday for our son who is in year 1 of infants school.. It seemed to be going well, until my husband brought up the fact that on Tuesday my son had a accident at school, he actually had two types of accidents...
 He bumped his head in the play ground.. Oh and yes they waited to Thursday at parents evening to inform us, and a toilet accident, the poor boy wet himself.
He says its the teachers fault, at first I didn't believe him.. Until his teacher confirmed it last night. He struggles a lot at school his reading, writing and spelling is well below the national average expected. So he has extra help in the mornings and extra little groups through the day.
This is done with a H.L.T.A (higher learning teacher assistant). She told him he needed to do his hand writing then he could go.
Well if she paid attention Tyler is a slow worked he gets distracted, and it takes him a long time to finish writing tasks.. So he never finished the dam task and because she told a 5 year old who hates to get into trouble to wait UNTILL HE HAD FINISHED THE WRITING TASK which he never did, he didn't think he would be allowed to go to the toilet so ended up wetting himself, getting embarrassed in front of his friends and crying to me at home.. AAAAGGGGHHHH

These teachers say lead by example so this is what im proposing to the H.T.L.A don't go to the toilet until your working day is done...

OK a bit extreme but, lately its one rule for them and another rule for us and our children.
I have had many a times where Tyler has come out of school looking extremely dirty.
Now if I had sent him in like that it would be classed as neglect... let me tell you another little story from year R that still makes me mad today...

During a morning playtime 2 boys from Tyler's year stole his shoes, ran around the playground with them (it had been raining) while tyler had to chase them... he ended up with wet muddy socks for the whole day, and to top it all off he then fell over in some mud, which ended up on his face.. Keep in mind this was morning play! He came out of school with this mud at 3.10pm still on his face.
 Like seriously a piece of tissue would of got it off with some water. Now im guessing it was much worse when it happened but if you told him to wipe it off at least make sure his face is completely clean not just the bulk of it gone. Once again... AAAAGGGGHHHH

Then there's the bump to the head on Tuesday. So a orang bump letter came home, but it wasn't filled in not even his name, so I could of been meant for any child... no explanation, I wouldn't of noticed the bump until bath time as his hair currently cover his forehead as he needs a hair cut, but I found this orange slip when doing his reading, handwriting, challenge words and teddy words home work....
It seems to me that yes this school is great for learning, but the care and attention that is needed for our children's wellbeing and safety just isn't there at the moment... a lot of the parents have noticed and we have all separately brought it to the schools attention, so this is just not words but I am just so mad about it all I needed to get it out all of it

char xox

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